The people you meet who affect your life， and the success and downfalls you experience， help to create who you are and who you become. Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact， they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts you， betrays you， or breaks your heart， forgive them， for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you， love them back unconditionally， not only because they love you， but because in a way， they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things. Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can， for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before， and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love， break free， and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself， for if you don' t believe in yourself， it will be hard for others to believe in you.
You can make of your life anything your wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely4 no regrets. Most importantly， if you love someone tell him or her， for you never know what tomorrow may have in store.
人們不時走進你的生活，有時你會覺察出，他們是出於某種特定目的：給你一個教訓，幫你認清自己或你理想中的自己。你永遠不知道這些人是誰（可能是你的室友，鄰居，同事，久違的朋友，愛人，甚至完全是一個陌生人）。一旦你開始關注他們，很快便會發現，他們影響了你的生活，而且往往很深刻。
有時，發生在你身上的事情看似可怕、痛苦，或不公平，但細思之後，你會發現，如果沒有克服這些障礙，就永遠不可能認識到自己的潛力，能力，毅力，或者真實的內心世界。世事皆非出於偶然。疾病，傷痛，愛情，輝煌的成就和徹底的失敗，這一切都是檢驗你靈魂的限度。不論它們以何種方式出現，沒有這些細微的考驗，生活會如一條平坦筆直的大道，無止境地延伸下去，也許安逸舒適，卻枯燥乏味，毫無意義。