Asking yourself why you do your job doesn’t mean you’re dissatisfied, just self-aware. This awareness can lead to greater job satisfaction, increased sense of well being and a little more control over what you do, rather than just “going along for the ride.” For some, it may be time for a change—if so, don’t be afraid of it. Change isn’t necessarily bad, it’s just different. For the rest of us, take a look around, you may find you’ve got a great view.
Take a look at your life. How would you describe it? Contented? Rushed? Exciting? Stressful? Moving forward? Holding back? For many of us it’s all of the above at times. There are things we dream of doing one day, there are things we wish we could forget. In the Bible, it says that Jesus came to make all things new. What would your life look like if you could start over with a clean slate?
我們每天都會聽到“跳槽”這個詞。盡管你有這樣的機會,但是一旦所有的改變都實現了,真的會使我們快樂嗎?或許問題不在於“我們如何能找到喜歡的工作”,而在於“我們如何愛上目前的工作”。采取下麵四個實用的步驟,來確定自己做現在這份工作的原因,花些時間想一想,你就會有驚奇的發現。
1. 要認識到:定義你的不是你的工作,而是你的工作方式。在這裏,更多的話題應該說是針對態度,而不是意願。任何工作隻要能做好,就要開心、認真地去做。你的工作態度和為人處世的方式,甚至是你的心情,都不會被人忽視。這些都會給你的同事帶來深刻的影響。你往往不能控製你的處境,但你可以選擇如何去適應。
2. 不再關注錢。錢永遠都不夠多,所以不要再用錢(或是缺錢)當做借口。不管每月的15號和30號你帶回家的是多少錢,你都會想得到更多的錢,做更多的事情。隻要你的錢更多,你想做、能做的事情就越多。試著記下你每周花的每一分錢。看看你的錢到底花在了哪裏,這樣可以幫助你審視是否確實把錢花在了你想要的東西上。得到報酬隻是你工作的一小部分,工作完成的意義遠遠超過了一張薪水支票。