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一個男人與他的女朋友舉行了一場盛大的結婚典禮。所有的親朋好友都來參加，分享他們的喜悅，對他們表示祝賀，大家都很愉快。身著雪白婚紗的新娘楚楚動人，穿著黑色禮服的新郎英俊瀟灑。大家看得出來，他們彼此相愛。婚後數月，妻子提議：“我剛在雜誌上看到一篇文章，講的是如何增進夫妻感情。我們各自在紙上羅列出對方的小缺點，然後一起討論如何解決的辦法，會使我們的婚姻生活更融洽。”丈夫很讚成。於是，他們分頭找了個房間，想對方的缺點。那天餘下的時間，他們都在想這個問題，同時也把所想的寫了下來。 第二天早上，吃早餐時，他們決定談談彼此的缺點。“我先來吧。”妻子說。她拿出單子，上麵都寫滿了，足有三頁紙。開始念紙上寫的丈夫的小毛病時，她注意到他的眼角濕潤了。“怎麽了？”她問道。“沒什麽，”丈夫答道，“繼續念啊。”妻子接著念，念完以後，她把單子整齊地放在桌上，兩手交叉放在上麵。“現在，該你了。你念完後，我們就來談談這些缺點吧。”妻子開心地說道。丈夫平靜地說：“我什麽也沒寫，我覺得你這樣已經很完美了，不用為我改變。你很可愛，也很迷人，我不想改變你的任何事情。”丈夫誠實、深沉的愛與包容，深深地觸動了她。她轉過頭去，哭了起來。生活中，已經有很多時候，我們都會感到失望、沮喪和厭煩，真的不用再去刻意尋找它們。我們擁有一個充滿美麗、光明和希望的美好世界。我們環顧四周，就可以發覺這些美好，那又何必把光陰耗費在尋找不快、失落和煩惱上呢？
A man and his girlfriend were married.It was a large celebration.All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations.All had a wonderful time.The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo.Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.A few months later，the wife came to the husband with a proposal，“I read in a magazine，a while ago，about how we can strengthen our marriage，”she offered，“Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person.Then，we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together.”The husband agreed.So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other.They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.The next morning，at the breakfast table，they decided that they would go over their lists.“I’ll start，”offered the wife.She took out her list.It had many items on it，enough to fill 3 pages.In fact.As she started reading the list of the little annoyances，she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband’s eyes.“What’s wrong？”she asked.“Nothing，”the husband replied，“keep reading your list.”The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband.