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第13章 陰雨天的陽光SunshineonaRainyDay

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你是否經曆過這樣的一天,在這一天裏事事不順不久以前我就有過這麽一天,我感到氣餒、厭煩,非常悲傷,我滿腦子想的都是自己,畢竟沒有人經曆過我的磨難。

我把我糟糕的心情告訴我的母親,希望得到她的憐憫,母親卻說:“我聽說傑米今天也不高興,你為什麽不做些餅幹今天下午帶給她呢”我本來不想去做,但是我不願再去想其他讓我心煩的事情,所以我就去做餅幹了,把做好的餅幹擺在一個小盤裏,還做了一個畫著太陽的卡片,在上麵寫了一句安慰的話。那天下午我們去我的朋友家拜訪,我去按門鈴,很快,傑米出來驚奇地看著我,她沒有想到我會來看她。在她開口說話之前,我先說話了:“我聽說你今天不高興,就決定送你些東西,希望你高興起來。”當時,我無法用語言描述傑米的表情,就好像陰暗的天空突然間被金色的陽光照亮,好像她陰鬱的一天因我的拜訪而變得充滿陽光。

我回到車裏驚奇地發現我的心情好多了,那一天我體會到一個真理,詹姆斯巴裏這樣描述它:“給別人帶去陽光的人,自己也會感到溫暖。”

Have you ever had a day when everything seemed to go wrong,and nothing seemed to go right?Not too long ago I was having one of those days.I was discouraged,weary,and plain sad.My focus was on me,me,me.After all,no one else was experiencing the same trials as I was.

I expressed my downcast state to my mother,hoping for some pity.Instead,she said,“I heard Jamie was having a difficult day too.Why don’t you make her some cookies and we will take them to her this afternoon?”I didn’t really want to,but decided that I didn’t want to go back to my other problems just yet.I made the cookies and arranged them on a little plate.Then I made a card with a sunflower on it and wrote a small note of empathy.