■Individualism vs.Modesty
Occidental are proud of the accomplishments of individuals.They never conceal their self-confidence,and they are always proud of the achievements and the ecstasy of themselves.On the contrary,the promotion of Chinese culture does not flaunt personal honor,Chinese people are usually against or defy the people who are proud of themselves.However,Occidental are discontented with the Chinese self-denial or self-modesty.“Your English is very good!” “No,my English is poor.” For Chinese people,it is a common modest response.But in the eyes of Occidental,it denies not only himself/herself but also the people who appreciate him/her.The modesty of the Chinese style is really not feasible in Occident.
■Self-center vs.Selflessness
Occidental have a strong sense of independence and self-center.One should be responsible for himself/herself and everyone’s quality of life and survival depends on his/her ability.Therefore,each person must be independent and they consider personal interests to be most important.They are not used to caring for others,helping others or talking about the affairs of others.It clearly can be seen from the above that helping others or being helped by others in the Occident are some embarrassing incidents.Being helped by others shows one’s lack of ability and helping others will be regarded as interference in others’ privacy.The value of Chinese individuals is embodied in the dedication and Chinese culture advocates a noble sentiment—selfless devotion.In China,activities concerning others and giving others very careful consideration is a virtue.Therefore,Chinese people would like to care about other’s family affairs,which would be seen as intrusion in Occident.
■Spirit of Exploration and Innovation vs.Middlebrow
Occidental are encouraged to be explorative,innovative and do remarkable terrific cases that can not be done by their predecessors.Traditional Chinese culture needs people to be impartial,follow moderation.They are more willing to hold out the status quo and harmony.Although China has also made great efforts on advancing innovation,the adventurous spirit of Chinese people still can not be comparable with Occidental.