People usually expect perfect behavior from the host and crib if anything is amiss.While the success of a social occasion does not depend on the host alone: the guests also play an important role.
When you’ve been invited to a party or gathering,you may have thought it is the host’s job to make sure that everything goes to plan and everyone has a jolly time.If you really thought that,we’re going to guess you’ve already made at least one host frustrated in your wake.If your host ends up feeling hard done by,unhappy,there will be one less person in the world willing to host events.And those people are already running thin on the ground.
There are two philosophies that you should keep in mind all the time; you’ll always be a great guest without even trying.The first: You are not special.The second: Your host is not your mother.
What does a great guest like?Take a look at how easily they guide you through each step of the event:
■Respond Promptly
You should respond the invitation as soon as possible.Because your host needs to know numbers so she can arrange for everything for the event (food/drink/tickets/whatever).If no one on her list is going to be able to make it,then she needs to know to pick another date or cancel the event.If you don’t give your response promptly,you’re making her planning more difficult.Do you want to wait for a better offer coming in? Remember the first principle: You are not special.Just like everyone else needs to decide on an event when they are invited,so too do you.Holding out for a better invite is impolite,your host will notice every day that goes by with silence.
■If You Say You’re Coming,Then Come.If You Say You Aren’t,Then Don’tIf you accept the invitation,be sure to attend the event.You may think that the host probably won’t even notice one person missing,In fact,She’ll notice when her food has been sitting out for an hour and none of her guests have shown up and she’ll be very aware of the work and money that went into the uneaten food and undrunk drinks.Remember that there are always some people break their promise,you’ll only be adding to those numbers.